I love this question because every time I ask those I work with what they desire, the most common response is something like, “I have never given that any thought” or “Gosh, I don’t really know.”
“What do you mean ‘committed to chaos,’ Alyssa? Why would I be committed to chaos?!?”
For some, chaos helps you stay distracted from facing what scares you.
For example, let’s say you’re at a financially stable day job and you want to quit but…………. you’re terrified that you’ll lose the stability that your day job offers!
So… you find yourself in chaos.
No time to work on your business… Your to-do list just grows and grows… You can’t find a moment to yourself… Things at work and home are blowing up…
…….or are they
When you’re afraid to take the next step, you can often CREATE chaos.
Maybe you add things to your to-do list that don’t need to be on there.
Or you develop intense levels of perfectionism that keep you working on your website for 6 months instead of the week it needs.
With things taking so long because you’re so busy, you’ll never get what you REALLY want: to quit your day job.
If it is, fill in the blank:
“One fear I have of getting what I want is _________ .”
From Alyssa Norbriga, www.AlyssiaNorbriga.com